Firstly...I have an idea. On the very off chance that this issue actually grows legs this week, Kerry should just say THIS and be done with it:
"I made a mistake in how I talked about this issue, but George Bush made a mistake in pushing for an anti-gay constitutional amendment. Which is worse?"
But here's what I'm actually here to write.
No....my hair is not on fire. If yours is, this diary is for you. I've thought about this a lot, and here's what I believe.
I know where the fear comes from...it comes from being brutalized by the Wellstone Memorial, and expecting more of the same this year. It still hurts, doesn't it? It does.
It strikes me that this issue probably bruised Kerry on Thursday, and yet for the 4 days that have followed, TV talking heads have wondered how MUCH it's hurt him. The polls show that he took a hit right after the debate, but it seems to have already dissipated and it appears things are on the upswing.
If you make a point of listening to right-wing radio, or watching Hardball, Hannity, and Paula Zahn every night, you may well believe its the number one issue in the campaign. But you gotta think that the vast majority of regular viewers are political junkies with nothing else to watch, who have already made up their mind anyway. And of course, we don't have to worry what the obsessive FoxNews watchers think. These people have to fill up an hour or more of idiotic talk, so its bound to come up. Its all political junk food, but we eat it because we're obsessed and have no lives outside this damn election. They only serve to make us fret. But do the voters that MATTER really care about this?
Ask yourself this question: If you're a reasonable undecided voter, worried about health care, the war in Iraq, jobs, or whatever, do you really think that a true and positive comment by Kerry that came out sounding "bad" would make you turn around vote for Bush? Seriously, think about it. If swing voters forgave Bush of a freaking DWI right before the 2000 election, don't you think they'd be reasonable now? I think so.
And I believe the Kerry people know this too. They have focus groups to figure this stuff out. You know they gave Bill Clinton a call about this too. If the evidence suggested it was toxic, I believe they would have apologized right away. Kerry let the "Swift Boat" ads fester on the advice of his staff and it really cost him. Do you really think he would allow that mistake to happen again? I don't.
I work in a big office with a lot of what I would call "average" working people, and politics does come up a lot. No one has brought this up in a negative way. If this was BAD, I know it would have. I had a good talk about the last debate with an actual swing voter, and her thoughts were "Bush was on the defensive". Nothing about the unnamed topic. It doesn't matter.
Yes Kerry sounded awkward. Yes it amounted to a stinky fart in an otherwise great performance. It matters to us because we're obsessively following this thing, and we're pulling our hair out over every little thing that isn't going perfect. And that's not going to change until Kerry wins, and he will.
Furthermore, I get the feeling that if the Bush campaign really thought this was a winning issue for them, they would be trying A LOT harder to make it one.
If so, what would their campaign slogan be?
Bush/Cheney '04: "We don't discuss lesbians on TV"